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Me: Autistic.

I’m sitting here cuddling my sick son. Wondering how badly the world is going to chew him up and spit him out because he’s autistic. Just like I am. It’ll be bad. I know that. The world is going to break him. I would let it break me, over and over and over again to… Read More ›

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Queer Kerfluffles and Marginalized readers

Content warning bad words and loud opinions. EDIT: JESUS FUCKING CHRIST ON A CRUTCH. Non-autistic readers, I am AUTISTIC, I mean ONLY what I’m saying with the words that are on the page. I am not IMPLYING anything. There is NO HIDDEN MESSAGE. Y’all have caused me to have an emotional meltdown with your accusations…. Read More ›

Consent, #Metoo, Kink, Domination/submission, and owning our needs.

Content Warning: Sex, Sexual Abuse, Kink I’m kinky, but y’all knew that if you’ve been following me for any time at all. I’ve always BEEN kinky. I’ve also been the victim of sexual assault and rape. And no, before you even think it, I’m not kinky because of my abuse. Kink has healed me from… Read More ›

Social media, New followers, Reviews and related STUFF.

You can tell, based on how chatty I’ve been lately on both my blog and social media that I’m stalled on drafting my WIP. I’ll get back there when life calms down a little bit more. I need to say a few things that might be of use to peeps, given the increased numbers of… Read More ›

A reaction to The Last Jedi, from a die hard SW fan who hated Rogue One.

TL;DR is… I fucking loved it so hard. You hate Frumplestiltskin, the GOP, and maybe even rich peeps? See it, IN THEATRE. Spoiler free review. I’m not going to go into detail. I don’t usually review movies, I bitch about or laud them on twitter instead. I reviewed Rogue One, but only cause I loathed… Read More ›

New Book Review: WALKING ON WATER by Matthew J. Metzger

LGBTQIA+, Fantasy, Romance, Retelling (Little Mermaid) BLURB When a cloud falls to earth, Calla sets out to find what lies beyond the sky. Father says there’s nothing, but Calla knows better. Something killed that cloud; someone brought it down. Raised on legends of fabled skymen, Calla never expected them to be real, much less save… Read More ›

Knowing now…

It changed my perspective on the world. Reading that horrible book. My reaction, the twitter threads, my review… Not only in the obvious way, in that I still feel like I waded through sewage to read it, and can’t quite get the stink off my soul. But also in finding out how deeply caring the #actuallyautistic… Read More ›

A reaction to reading TO SIRI WITH LOVE from an #actuallyautistic author.

You know. I started reading that horrific book as a bit of a whim, thinking it wouldn’t be that bad. I’m the autistic mom of autistic kids, my husband is autistic, we value and appreciate our children and ourselves in pretty much every particular. Are there challenges? Absolutely. But they aren’t anything that neurotypicals don’t… Read More ›

NaNoWriMo 2017, Let’s Do This!

Okay. So. Everyone has to find their own method for writing novels. Shhh. I’m serious! Pipe down! There is a metric TON of ‘writing advice’ out there but there isn’t a skeleton key or a magical panacea that is going to help YOU get YOUR novel written. ‘Cause that’s on you. You’re the one who… Read More ›

Asexual Identity and the Power of Fiction

Growing up, after I learned to read (I’m dyslexic, in a time when it wasn’t recognized or treated) I was always the kid with their nose stuck in a book. Books were a way for me to live lives that weren’t as abused as mine was. They were places I could escape to when life,… Read More ›