I’m Kinky.

So, yeah. I wanna talk about me for a minute. (You know, I’m not fond of talking about me barring a couple of glasses of wine).

Still. The things I’d like to know about my favorite authors are going to make up a section of my blog posts.  I read some authors and I question, are they like me? They seem to be like me, but are they really?

That sense of connection, I think, is something a lot of us want with our favorite writers.

So, this blog post, hallo there! I’m Kinky!

I’m chuckling as I write that, because I don’t know how someone could write anything resembling kink and NOT be. At least, not if you’re going to do it well. Yes, I highly recommend researching anything you decide to write about, but that said, there are some things you just have to experience or you aren’t going to fully understand it.

Like the way a crop feels across your ass and how good the flicker of a skilled cane wielder can help guide a bottom deeper into sub-space.

What the rush feels like after either giving or receiving a skilled flogging.

Experience has its place, and yes, I live kink as part of a lifestyle.

I identify as being part of the kink community.

My personal tastes I’m not going to share, but I identify as a D/Top, though I have played the other side enough to learn what it feels like. Every skilled D has to do that (in my opinion) or, honestly, how can they help their s/b into the space, safely, that both D/s want to be in?

So, yeah. I don’t just write it, I’ve done it, I’ve lived it, it takes up a large portion of my mind-space.

Anything kinky I write is as accurate as I can write it, and no, my own experiences aren’t the same as any other person’s on the planet. I don’t claim they are. If I include something in my writing that isn’t something I have personal experience with (and no, not everything I write about is my own experience) I’ve talked with others in the community about it to be certain I’m getting it as authentic as I can.

Play safely everyone! You can check out my Links about Kink page for more info.

Links about Kink

 

 

 

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